i had a man tell me that if a woman dresses in a way thats considered ‘revealing’ its because she wants attention from men
cause it cant be possible that i am comfortable in my body and i wish to wear whatever the fuck i want and where i want
not for your douchefuck eyes to see.
and a mans attention equates harassment, invasion of personal space, and disgusting cat calls. its some misogynistic rape culture bullshit to assume women want to be harrassed.
i proceeded to let his ass know that he was a misogynistic pervert who cant control himself and that pretty much shut him up.
I used to never wear anything revealing, even when I became confident with my body, exactly for this reason. Because I didn’t want dumbasses looking at me. I don’t want attention, I just want to wear clothes.
It’s not about you. It’s not that hard.